My first weekend trip was to Sevilla. I flew out Saturday Morning and returned Sunday Night (which actually ended up being 3am Monday Morning).
What I liked about this trip in particular, was that it was my first journey completely by myself, with nothing really planned other than flights, hostel, and a few recommended sights. It ended up being so much more than I could have asked for.
Traveling gives you such better outlook and insight than any other experience, and the more familiar things you take away from it, the more you learn and grow. During this trip I pondered the awesomeness of time travel not that we can actually do it (although, my personal interest in super power development would be the ability to teleport), but our swift ability to wake up in one city and go to bed in another. To cross time zones in a matter of minutes and cover more terrain in a week than some people will ever see in a lifetime. Short weekend trips are one of my favorites just because you wake up in the familiar, and could be having dinner in a new city you just finished getting a taste of. Its and incredible feeling.
Other components of travel would have to be the following:
-Life Experience (adding to the list of things you've accomplished is quite rewarding)
-Food/Drink (half of traveling is eating. . . seriously)
-People (locals, back at home, traveling like you, tourists and otherwise)
-Escape (from your other location, and from yourself)
-Efficiency (crazy how much you can do in a day when you only have 2 to work with)
-Adventure (the willingness to just get up and go where the day takes you)
-Soul searching/reflecting (I learn more on my travels than I ever will in a classroom)
-Growth, learning, development (better understanding of the world, and yourself)
-Love (knowing of what you love, who you love, how to love, and what it is to love)
I just realized that the above 10 themes/topics are probably the most important and prominent in my life, which explains a lot about me and my desire to constantly be doing new things and going new places. It allows me to stretch and grow, enriching what I do and what I know about myself, and the world. Which is quite fascinating actually.
I've said it before, but few things can compare to having a great conversation: be it with a stranger, a best friend, or someone you've just met. In the past few weeks I've had great conversations with all of the above, and look forward to having more moments like that in the days, weeks, and years to come.
Peace, Love, and Happiness,
~Jenna
I often refer to my mass photo taking habits as "documenting my life", and this, is the written elaboration of that journey. I hope you enjoy reading about the various thoughts, adventures, and encounters of my life
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Drinks in Spain
While visiting with Seth and Ali last weekend in Barcelona, I thought about what drinks they had to try while in Spain. That got me thinking that it'd be a neat thing to write about.
First things first though, everyone back home has been saying things like "Enjoy some Sangria for me!" or "Toast with some Sangria". Just to let everyone know, that although for some reason Spain is known for its Sangria, it is not popular here at all. While talking with one of my dad's friends who's lived here for 8 years she said:
"Sangria!? Oh wow, I've lived here for 8 years and I've never ever had Sangria. Only the tourists drink it because they come to Spain like "Oh I'm in Spain, I need Sangria!" I don't even know if most places even have it on the drink menu. If you were at a tourist restaurant for sure they would have it, and they'd make a big deal about offering it too."
I though that was so funny when she said that, till I though and realized that none of the people I've met while out have ever asked for Sangria. Its either beer, wine, or something like Rum & Coke or Gin & Tonic. The only time I had Sangria (which was on Friday actually) was at a dinner at their Aunt's house and it was home made. It was absolutely delicious.
Here are 3 drinks that are popular during the Summer in Spain
1. Tinto de Verano (Summer Wine)
This beverage is the local's alternative to Sangria, and is equally delicious. It is red wine (or if you're out, the house wine) with lemon. If you are at a bar/restaurant and ask for a tinto, the will give you a glass of the house wine. If you ask for a tinto de verano they will give you the same glass of house red wine, but add in lemon flavored Casera, which is a lemon soda drink found in Spain.
In Barcelona last weekend, we were at a tourist tapas bar, Tapa Tapa (you could tell as Sangria was on the Menu). I asked for a "tinto de verano" and the watier said "you mean Sangria?" I replied, "no, tinto de verano". He looked puzzled for a bit, then when through a whole bunch of clicking on his electronic order machine before continuing. I love how he thought I ordered the wrong thing. Too bad I've been living like a local for the past 3 weeks guy. Haha. He also seemed a bit put off when I ordered our Tapas in Spanish. Silly.
2. Clara
For those who prefer Beer to Wine on a warm summer day, you would enjoy this lighter, more refreshing alternative.
A "Clara" is a mix of Beer and Casera, but you can choose if you just want the fizz, or if you want the lemon flavor. It goes down much cooler and smoother than beer, and has a clear aftertaste rather than the residual taste of most beers. I enjoy this the most as it satisfies your thirst for a glass of water, while giving you the enjoyment of a nice beverage.
3. Mojito
This third beverage is something I've seen advertised for many what would be "happy hour specials" as well as "copas" (late night drinks after dinner). But more frequently, I have seen people making them at home for themselves and for guests while entertaining.
The non-alcoholic version of the Mojito is common amongst kids (while in the US its more of a virgin strawberry daiquiri or pina colada, while on vacation)
I've had a home-made one while at the aunt's house, but have yet to order one while out. Since we don't have Caseara in the states, I've been trying that out instead.
As far as Beer goes, I haven't had any special "Spanish Beer". The men tend to drink Estrella Damm, Heineken, San Miguel, and Cruzcampo (Sponsor of the Spanish World Cup Team), none of which are anything to write home about. They're comparative to our Bud Light, Miller, and Coors brands. I haven't found anything too distinct about them.
If I find any new things to add, I'll let you know. Until then, what's your favorite summer drink?
~Jenna
First things first though, everyone back home has been saying things like "Enjoy some Sangria for me!" or "Toast with some Sangria". Just to let everyone know, that although for some reason Spain is known for its Sangria, it is not popular here at all. While talking with one of my dad's friends who's lived here for 8 years she said:
"Sangria!? Oh wow, I've lived here for 8 years and I've never ever had Sangria. Only the tourists drink it because they come to Spain like "Oh I'm in Spain, I need Sangria!" I don't even know if most places even have it on the drink menu. If you were at a tourist restaurant for sure they would have it, and they'd make a big deal about offering it too."
I though that was so funny when she said that, till I though and realized that none of the people I've met while out have ever asked for Sangria. Its either beer, wine, or something like Rum & Coke or Gin & Tonic. The only time I had Sangria (which was on Friday actually) was at a dinner at their Aunt's house and it was home made. It was absolutely delicious.
Here are 3 drinks that are popular during the Summer in Spain
1. Tinto de Verano (Summer Wine)
This beverage is the local's alternative to Sangria, and is equally delicious. It is red wine (or if you're out, the house wine) with lemon. If you are at a bar/restaurant and ask for a tinto, the will give you a glass of the house wine. If you ask for a tinto de verano they will give you the same glass of house red wine, but add in lemon flavored Casera, which is a lemon soda drink found in Spain.
In Barcelona last weekend, we were at a tourist tapas bar, Tapa Tapa (you could tell as Sangria was on the Menu). I asked for a "tinto de verano" and the watier said "you mean Sangria?" I replied, "no, tinto de verano". He looked puzzled for a bit, then when through a whole bunch of clicking on his electronic order machine before continuing. I love how he thought I ordered the wrong thing. Too bad I've been living like a local for the past 3 weeks guy. Haha. He also seemed a bit put off when I ordered our Tapas in Spanish. Silly.
2. Clara
For those who prefer Beer to Wine on a warm summer day, you would enjoy this lighter, more refreshing alternative.
A "Clara" is a mix of Beer and Casera, but you can choose if you just want the fizz, or if you want the lemon flavor. It goes down much cooler and smoother than beer, and has a clear aftertaste rather than the residual taste of most beers. I enjoy this the most as it satisfies your thirst for a glass of water, while giving you the enjoyment of a nice beverage.
3. Mojito
This third beverage is something I've seen advertised for many what would be "happy hour specials" as well as "copas" (late night drinks after dinner). But more frequently, I have seen people making them at home for themselves and for guests while entertaining.
The non-alcoholic version of the Mojito is common amongst kids (while in the US its more of a virgin strawberry daiquiri or pina colada, while on vacation)
I've had a home-made one while at the aunt's house, but have yet to order one while out. Since we don't have Caseara in the states, I've been trying that out instead.
As far as Beer goes, I haven't had any special "Spanish Beer". The men tend to drink Estrella Damm, Heineken, San Miguel, and Cruzcampo (Sponsor of the Spanish World Cup Team), none of which are anything to write home about. They're comparative to our Bud Light, Miller, and Coors brands. I haven't found anything too distinct about them.
If I find any new things to add, I'll let you know. Until then, what's your favorite summer drink?
~Jenna
Funny Things about Spanish People
So I'm usually not very critical of things, but some observations are in need of criticism. That being said, I am absolutely LOVING my time here in Spain and it makes me sad thinking how there's only 10 days left.
*** I in no way intend to offend anyone, but these are things that I (as well as other US traveling in Spain) have noticed. This is not to say that every person in Spain is this way, just that on more than one occasion I've encountered these things***
Que Calor!!!
So Spain has seems to have this obsession with complaining about their weather. Not a day (sometimes a conversation) goes by where someone's not commenting on how hot it is (Que Calor!) and how they are feeling very warm. I mean, yes the temperature is 'warm' and we are in the hottest months of the year (July/August) but it is by no stretch of the imagination unbearable. Today it is 90, and the high this week is 100. . . (probably the highest since i've been here) and if you're sitting in the house, it's totally fine. (lows range from 55-68, and at night if we're out they'll say "Oi I'm so cold!")
I understand if you're sitting in the sun, yes, you will be hot. But if you're in the pool, how can you still complain about how hot you are? I've even heard from a friend that their family said "Oh it's so hot! It's too hot to go swimming!"
This has become the running joke amongst every American I've met in Spain. "QUE CALOR!"
Swimming Pool
I mentioned this in an earlier post, but I find it funny how "mandatory" it is to spend time in the pool. This morning, the kids and I had Spanish class from about 10:30-11, till it was time for lunch at 2:30. After lunch their mom said they could watch 1 show then they had to change into their swimsuits and go in the pool. I understand that she doesn't want them just sitting and watching TV all day, but it's not like they can go read a book or just call their friends, the next activity must involve the pool.
We spent all day yesterday at the water park, Aquapolis (look for more in a separate post), running around, waiting in lines, and going down tube slides and body slides. I'm really not in the mood for the pool today after doing it for 6 hours yesterday. Mercedes doesn't want to go in the pool and it seems like her mom is having a problem with it. So funny!
Yes, its 'warm/hot' and the pool is refreshing. But I don't see how it needs to be as forced as getting your kids to eat their vegetables.
Oil & Fitness
Most everyone I've met seems concerned with avoiding things that may make them fat (peanut butter, candy, fast food), yet they haven't seemed to realize that some of their hard and fast routines are just as bad. The amount of oil that goes into cooking most Spanish food is absurd (although makes for quite a lovely result). Party Drinking, not getting enough sleep and eating ice cream 2x a day doesn't help either.
I think their association with "bad foods" comes from their knowledge of what is popular in the US (McDonalds. . .) and our recent obesity issues, rather than knowing the caloric content and natural effects of diet and exercise. Also, they think I'm crazy for walking a lot in the city since it's so hot out. I wonder what they'd say if I wanted to go for a run. . .
Let's Go (NOW!)
This could just be specific to my family, but when she says "we're going to the store" that means, let's walk out the door and get in the car as we are leaving right now. Typically, it's not a big deal, I just get up, grab my purse, and tag along. But some things take prep: like going from swimming in the pool, to going out for dinner and drinks. For a girl, I get pretty fairly quickly, and don't have a problem going w/out all the bells and whistles you could do if you had more time on your hands, but it's funny that they use no prep time or fore-warning when it comes to going places and doing things.
Stereotypes
So everyone is guilty of this at one point or another, and every culture does it in a different way. What I've noticed is that amongst Spanish people, it has a lot do with appearance, and language. While some people have their opinions of each type of ethnic group that inhabits their country, here its more like "she pronounces her La/El differently than we do. Why is that?" Or, having a particular name for people who have lots of tattoos and piercings.
I just found it interesting the amount of attention they give to it. Not saying that the US doesn't or anything . . . just think of a high school lunch room.
Now that you've had a taste of my criticism (if you've ever talked to me in person, this is nothing new) I'll go back to talking about all the nice and awesome things I've been able to do with my time in Spain.
~Jenna
*** I in no way intend to offend anyone, but these are things that I (as well as other US traveling in Spain) have noticed. This is not to say that every person in Spain is this way, just that on more than one occasion I've encountered these things***
Que Calor!!!
So Spain has seems to have this obsession with complaining about their weather. Not a day (sometimes a conversation) goes by where someone's not commenting on how hot it is (Que Calor!) and how they are feeling very warm. I mean, yes the temperature is 'warm' and we are in the hottest months of the year (July/August) but it is by no stretch of the imagination unbearable. Today it is 90, and the high this week is 100. . . (probably the highest since i've been here) and if you're sitting in the house, it's totally fine. (lows range from 55-68, and at night if we're out they'll say "Oi I'm so cold!")
I understand if you're sitting in the sun, yes, you will be hot. But if you're in the pool, how can you still complain about how hot you are? I've even heard from a friend that their family said "Oh it's so hot! It's too hot to go swimming!"
This has become the running joke amongst every American I've met in Spain. "QUE CALOR!"
Swimming Pool
I mentioned this in an earlier post, but I find it funny how "mandatory" it is to spend time in the pool. This morning, the kids and I had Spanish class from about 10:30-11, till it was time for lunch at 2:30. After lunch their mom said they could watch 1 show then they had to change into their swimsuits and go in the pool. I understand that she doesn't want them just sitting and watching TV all day, but it's not like they can go read a book or just call their friends, the next activity must involve the pool.
We spent all day yesterday at the water park, Aquapolis (look for more in a separate post), running around, waiting in lines, and going down tube slides and body slides. I'm really not in the mood for the pool today after doing it for 6 hours yesterday. Mercedes doesn't want to go in the pool and it seems like her mom is having a problem with it. So funny!
Yes, its 'warm/hot' and the pool is refreshing. But I don't see how it needs to be as forced as getting your kids to eat their vegetables.
Oil & Fitness
Most everyone I've met seems concerned with avoiding things that may make them fat (peanut butter, candy, fast food), yet they haven't seemed to realize that some of their hard and fast routines are just as bad. The amount of oil that goes into cooking most Spanish food is absurd (although makes for quite a lovely result). Party Drinking, not getting enough sleep and eating ice cream 2x a day doesn't help either.
I think their association with "bad foods" comes from their knowledge of what is popular in the US (McDonalds. . .) and our recent obesity issues, rather than knowing the caloric content and natural effects of diet and exercise. Also, they think I'm crazy for walking a lot in the city since it's so hot out. I wonder what they'd say if I wanted to go for a run. . .
Let's Go (NOW!)
This could just be specific to my family, but when she says "we're going to the store" that means, let's walk out the door and get in the car as we are leaving right now. Typically, it's not a big deal, I just get up, grab my purse, and tag along. But some things take prep: like going from swimming in the pool, to going out for dinner and drinks. For a girl, I get pretty fairly quickly, and don't have a problem going w/out all the bells and whistles you could do if you had more time on your hands, but it's funny that they use no prep time or fore-warning when it comes to going places and doing things.
Stereotypes
So everyone is guilty of this at one point or another, and every culture does it in a different way. What I've noticed is that amongst Spanish people, it has a lot do with appearance, and language. While some people have their opinions of each type of ethnic group that inhabits their country, here its more like "she pronounces her La/El differently than we do. Why is that?" Or, having a particular name for people who have lots of tattoos and piercings.
I just found it interesting the amount of attention they give to it. Not saying that the US doesn't or anything . . . just think of a high school lunch room.
Now that you've had a taste of my criticism (if you've ever talked to me in person, this is nothing new) I'll go back to talking about all the nice and awesome things I've been able to do with my time in Spain.
~Jenna
Things i've learned about Spain (that are different from the US)
So since I've been here, I've been in Spain, I've been noting down the cultural differences between here, and the US. Ones that I find particularly interesting will eventually have their own, more detailed post. Enjoy!
Greetings with 2 kisses
When you see a friend, or meet someone for the first time, you are to give them 2 kisses - cheek to cheek - on both sides. Kids give you just one, and men who are friends can just do a handshake. Hugging is also very common among friends of both genders to accommodate the two kisses. Also, if you are having dinner with friends and another friend comes into the restaurant, everyone stands up to say hello. Everyone also remains standing until the guest either joins the table or leaves. (this is less formal at someone's house, or while watching a futbol game).
Along with the 2 kisses goes a heightened sense of physical interaction and expression of feelings towards another. Between siblings, this could be lots of hugging, or holding hands when their happy - and slapping/hitting one another when they're angry/upset. For the romantically involved, this is constant cuddling, hugging, touching, and kissing. On many occasions I've seen a couple go at it, regardless of their location. Be it in line at a water park, or as a pit stop while they're strolling down the street. A few times while a couple is sitting/laying down in the park or on the beach, I questioned what was really going on there . . . with the hands all over the place and clothes not so quite where they normally go.
Needless to say, Spanish is a very expressive and emotionally connected culture. When you feel a certain way, regardless of where you are, you act upon it.
Las Escuelas (the schools)
For elementary and middle school age children, the school they attend is determined through a point system. You can get points for living near the school, having a large family (3 children), or having a sibling whose attended that school. My host family has 3 points, so they go to the school only a few blocks away, while one of Alvaro's friends only has 1 point (living nearby) so he doesn't have enough total points to go to this school, and has to go to a different one.
I'm going to make a post about this now that I've learned more about the integration of English into their school system.
To have a Nanny is common
Many people have nannies, or hired help, that live with them, take care of the house, cook the food, and take care of the kids. I love our nanny, Ciri, she's from Mexico, and her sister is her in Spain working as a Nanny as well. She is quite a joy to have around and very fun to talk to. Magui treats her like a part of the family and you can tell that she really enjoys her job, and taking care of Paula all day :)
Most houses are flats (apartments)
Although the house I'm staying in a two-story house, most houses in Spain are flats. The urbanizacion that this family lives in (think suburb) is very nice as all the houses have gardens (back yards), pools, and plenty of space. In the city (just like in the US), people live in small apartments which a community pool for everyone to use. The backyard/garden area is used for relaxing and entertaining guests. Whenever we have people over (family, friends, etc) we eat dinner outside. When it's just the family, we'll stay in at the kitchen table.
Smoking is Cultural
My host mom started smoking because "everybody does it" it's a part of their culture, especially if you are at a social event. This is probably the only thing I don't like about Spain so far, but also being from the US where everything is anti smoking and banning it in restaruants, bars, bowling alleys, and now some college campuses, its hard to get used to the cloudy fog again.
Army Time
They tell time like the military, using 1-24 instead of AM and PM. This took some getting used to because I would see 22 and get really confused. Now, I memorized that 9pm = 21, and go from there. Digital clocks are this way, movie times, and flight times, so it was definitely something I had to learn. Typically we have lunch at 2:30, and dinner at 9. In Spain things operate on a much later time table than in the US, where you could be meeting someone for lunch at 11, that's breakfast for those of us who don't have to wake up for work in the morning.
Tons of History!
I'm sure everyone knows that Spain has a ton of history, but going to Madrid really made it show. Every plaza, street, and building is named after some person or some event, and has a ton of stories to go along with it. This is part of what makes their culture so rich and so strong.
No AC in most houses
My family has a nice house, so I was at first surprised that they didn't have Air Conditioning. Then I learned that lots of people don't because they believe it's bad for your health. They think that it is not good to breathe in all the cold air inside, and then go outside into the warm air. It is best that your body only has natural air in it, rather than from a machine. Because of this, we have most of the windows open during the day which makes it feel nice, but lets in lots of bugs and flies. There are sooooo many flies. At times the can be quite annoying, but after awhile you learn to ignore them. (funny, we were at McDonalds which is mega air conditioned, and when Mer started coughing, they blamed it on the AC)
The pride of !!!Viva Espana!!!
The Spaniards LOVE Spain. And everything to do with it. As compared with the US, where our world cup participation was moreso "GO USA Soccer Team", the Spanish cheer for their entire country, and the team that represents it - not that is just composed of people who live/play futbol there.
The amount of spirit gear could be likened to a college football apparel shop. They make just about everything with the Red and Gold, and the strip pattern of the flag. It almost makes you jealous that you don't feel their pride and excitement the same way that they do.
Eat lots of ice cream
This, I can't complain about, but its quite interesting to note. We have Ice Cream/dessert after Lunch and Dinner every day. Also, if you're walking through a major city like Madrid or Barcelona, you will see these signs advertising the various ice creams that store has in their freezer. There are probably 3 different versions of these signs (Magnum vs. Maxibon vs. Nestle), and when you see it, part of you just really wants ice cream.
Its not always "ice cream" per say though, its just this necessity for everyone to have a frozen treat after they eat, because its "So Hot" all the time - or so they say.
Everyone has a Pool
Pretty much everyone has a pool at their house, or lives in a townhouse/apartment complex that has one for that community. With my family, going in the pool is as routine as eating lunch and dinner. And, they think I'm odd for not wanting to go in the pool all the time. Its not that I don't like it (I mean, swimming and hanging out by the pool is pretty great), but sometimes I don't want to deal w/ my hair, or have some other things I'd like to get done. Also, it can be quite tiring to entertain a 7 and 10 year old in the pool for hours every day. Especially when their favorite game entails jumping on me and get a ride around the pool before I throw them off.
For people in the states, having a pool is a luxury (unless you live somewhere like Phoenix), while here, it is a necessity.
Comida Tradicional
I've been loving all the food here, and it's been a mix of traditional and 'regular'. I've had traditional Spanish tapas and dishes like croquetas, empanadas, tortillas (egg/potato omelet dish), anchovies and vinegar, and paella. But sometimes we have things like Lasagna, Pizza, Chicken Tenders and French Fries. The medium range of meals would be like today's lunch of Chicken and Rice. We also eat tuna, and a variety of other fish.
The best thing about living w/ a family has been eating like regular Spanish people, not just the hyped up dishes restaurants advertise to the tourists. Watching Ciri cook has also been great, as most every dish is made on the stove top, and either fried, or with some awesome sauce. I'm gonna miss this when I go home, even though my mom definitely knows her way around a kitchen.
Beber cuando tienes 18 anos
As with most places other than the US, you can drink when you're 18, which changes the dynamic of going out the the bars and the clubs. One place called "Moon" where my host mom likes to go always has a mix of ages: the 18-21 crowd, 28-35 ers, and the 50+. It's always a good time, and I think it may be advantageous for the US to think about this a bit more. While it would push the drinking even more so into high schools rather than colleges, it would allow parents to have a bit more involvement with their kid's alcohol intake, and have them not feel so odd about discussing the matter with them.
While everywhere has their own variety of drinking problems, incorporating it into your lifestyle earlier on, rather than making it an act of rebellion, could help get things a bit more under control
Los discotecas/bars hasta 7am
Going along with the later time line, "going out" doesn't tend to happen till at least 11:00. (Makes me feel like i'm back in college, where you don't decide what you're doing that night till its after 10). Since dinner's between 9 - 10, you go out to the bars after. And things stay open so late (like 4am or more) the young adults tend to make it back home around 7am.
While my host parents can't do this now since they have to work the next morning, coming through the front door around 2:30, 3:00 be it from the terrace bar or from tia maria's house is totally normal. If I were my age living here full time, itd be more like 6am or 7am, even if I did have class or work the next day.
Fiestas & Siestas
Now the secret to making it through these late, energetic nights, and managing the delayed meal times is Siestas. Now, that's not to say that every afternoon we drop what we're doing to go back into bed, but it is a break from the norm.
If you are walking around during the day and say its 1:50pm, in 10 minutes every shop/bar/store/restaurant around will shut off their lights and close their doors. Seriously. The only exception to this is if you are in an airport, or a tourist heavy part of town. During this time, all the workers go home (if its close enough) or go for lunch. They relax, chat, enjoy, and then once 4 or 5 rolls around (depending on their form of employment) its back to work.
Many places have hours posted like 9am-2pm, 5pm-8pm, as this mid-day break is just a part of their way of life. It is more widespread in some cities than in others, but across all of Spain it seems to still be in practice.
Also, on the weekends, you better plan when you want to get things done. While in the US everything is open late on Saturday, here, some things never re-open after the 2pm break until Monday Morning. Imagine walking down Michigan or 5th Avenue with all of the stores closed. This was Barcelona on Saturday afternoon, and all day Sunday.
That's probably the 1 part of Spanish living I could never get used to.
Look for more individual entries about the cultural differences between the US and Spain!
Greetings with 2 kisses
When you see a friend, or meet someone for the first time, you are to give them 2 kisses - cheek to cheek - on both sides. Kids give you just one, and men who are friends can just do a handshake. Hugging is also very common among friends of both genders to accommodate the two kisses. Also, if you are having dinner with friends and another friend comes into the restaurant, everyone stands up to say hello. Everyone also remains standing until the guest either joins the table or leaves. (this is less formal at someone's house, or while watching a futbol game).
Along with the 2 kisses goes a heightened sense of physical interaction and expression of feelings towards another. Between siblings, this could be lots of hugging, or holding hands when their happy - and slapping/hitting one another when they're angry/upset. For the romantically involved, this is constant cuddling, hugging, touching, and kissing. On many occasions I've seen a couple go at it, regardless of their location. Be it in line at a water park, or as a pit stop while they're strolling down the street. A few times while a couple is sitting/laying down in the park or on the beach, I questioned what was really going on there . . . with the hands all over the place and clothes not so quite where they normally go.
Needless to say, Spanish is a very expressive and emotionally connected culture. When you feel a certain way, regardless of where you are, you act upon it.
Las Escuelas (the schools)
For elementary and middle school age children, the school they attend is determined through a point system. You can get points for living near the school, having a large family (3 children), or having a sibling whose attended that school. My host family has 3 points, so they go to the school only a few blocks away, while one of Alvaro's friends only has 1 point (living nearby) so he doesn't have enough total points to go to this school, and has to go to a different one.
I'm going to make a post about this now that I've learned more about the integration of English into their school system.
To have a Nanny is common
Many people have nannies, or hired help, that live with them, take care of the house, cook the food, and take care of the kids. I love our nanny, Ciri, she's from Mexico, and her sister is her in Spain working as a Nanny as well. She is quite a joy to have around and very fun to talk to. Magui treats her like a part of the family and you can tell that she really enjoys her job, and taking care of Paula all day :)
Most houses are flats (apartments)
Smoking is Cultural
My host mom started smoking because "everybody does it" it's a part of their culture, especially if you are at a social event. This is probably the only thing I don't like about Spain so far, but also being from the US where everything is anti smoking and banning it in restaruants, bars, bowling alleys, and now some college campuses, its hard to get used to the cloudy fog again.
Army Time
They tell time like the military, using 1-24 instead of AM and PM. This took some getting used to because I would see 22 and get really confused. Now, I memorized that 9pm = 21, and go from there. Digital clocks are this way, movie times, and flight times, so it was definitely something I had to learn. Typically we have lunch at 2:30, and dinner at 9. In Spain things operate on a much later time table than in the US, where you could be meeting someone for lunch at 11, that's breakfast for those of us who don't have to wake up for work in the morning.
Tons of History!
I'm sure everyone knows that Spain has a ton of history, but going to Madrid really made it show. Every plaza, street, and building is named after some person or some event, and has a ton of stories to go along with it. This is part of what makes their culture so rich and so strong.
No AC in most houses
My family has a nice house, so I was at first surprised that they didn't have Air Conditioning. Then I learned that lots of people don't because they believe it's bad for your health. They think that it is not good to breathe in all the cold air inside, and then go outside into the warm air. It is best that your body only has natural air in it, rather than from a machine. Because of this, we have most of the windows open during the day which makes it feel nice, but lets in lots of bugs and flies. There are sooooo many flies. At times the can be quite annoying, but after awhile you learn to ignore them. (funny, we were at McDonalds which is mega air conditioned, and when Mer started coughing, they blamed it on the AC)
The pride of !!!Viva Espana!!!
The Spaniards LOVE Spain. And everything to do with it. As compared with the US, where our world cup participation was moreso "GO USA Soccer Team", the Spanish cheer for their entire country, and the team that represents it - not that is just composed of people who live/play futbol there.
The amount of spirit gear could be likened to a college football apparel shop. They make just about everything with the Red and Gold, and the strip pattern of the flag. It almost makes you jealous that you don't feel their pride and excitement the same way that they do.
This, I can't complain about, but its quite interesting to note. We have Ice Cream/dessert after Lunch and Dinner every day. Also, if you're walking through a major city like Madrid or Barcelona, you will see these signs advertising the various ice creams that store has in their freezer. There are probably 3 different versions of these signs (Magnum vs. Maxibon vs. Nestle), and when you see it, part of you just really wants ice cream.
Its not always "ice cream" per say though, its just this necessity for everyone to have a frozen treat after they eat, because its "So Hot" all the time - or so they say.
Everyone has a Pool
Pretty much everyone has a pool at their house, or lives in a townhouse/apartment complex that has one for that community. With my family, going in the pool is as routine as eating lunch and dinner. And, they think I'm odd for not wanting to go in the pool all the time. Its not that I don't like it (I mean, swimming and hanging out by the pool is pretty great), but sometimes I don't want to deal w/ my hair, or have some other things I'd like to get done. Also, it can be quite tiring to entertain a 7 and 10 year old in the pool for hours every day. Especially when their favorite game entails jumping on me and get a ride around the pool before I throw them off.
For people in the states, having a pool is a luxury (unless you live somewhere like Phoenix), while here, it is a necessity.
Comida Tradicional
I've been loving all the food here, and it's been a mix of traditional and 'regular'. I've had traditional Spanish tapas and dishes like croquetas, empanadas, tortillas (egg/potato omelet dish), anchovies and vinegar, and paella. But sometimes we have things like Lasagna, Pizza, Chicken Tenders and French Fries. The medium range of meals would be like today's lunch of Chicken and Rice. We also eat tuna, and a variety of other fish.
The best thing about living w/ a family has been eating like regular Spanish people, not just the hyped up dishes restaurants advertise to the tourists. Watching Ciri cook has also been great, as most every dish is made on the stove top, and either fried, or with some awesome sauce. I'm gonna miss this when I go home, even though my mom definitely knows her way around a kitchen.
Beber cuando tienes 18 anos
As with most places other than the US, you can drink when you're 18, which changes the dynamic of going out the the bars and the clubs. One place called "Moon" where my host mom likes to go always has a mix of ages: the 18-21 crowd, 28-35 ers, and the 50+. It's always a good time, and I think it may be advantageous for the US to think about this a bit more. While it would push the drinking even more so into high schools rather than colleges, it would allow parents to have a bit more involvement with their kid's alcohol intake, and have them not feel so odd about discussing the matter with them.
While everywhere has their own variety of drinking problems, incorporating it into your lifestyle earlier on, rather than making it an act of rebellion, could help get things a bit more under control
Los discotecas/bars hasta 7am
Going along with the later time line, "going out" doesn't tend to happen till at least 11:00. (Makes me feel like i'm back in college, where you don't decide what you're doing that night till its after 10). Since dinner's between 9 - 10, you go out to the bars after. And things stay open so late (like 4am or more) the young adults tend to make it back home around 7am.
While my host parents can't do this now since they have to work the next morning, coming through the front door around 2:30, 3:00 be it from the terrace bar or from tia maria's house is totally normal. If I were my age living here full time, itd be more like 6am or 7am, even if I did have class or work the next day.
Fiestas & Siestas
Now the secret to making it through these late, energetic nights, and managing the delayed meal times is Siestas. Now, that's not to say that every afternoon we drop what we're doing to go back into bed, but it is a break from the norm.
If you are walking around during the day and say its 1:50pm, in 10 minutes every shop/bar/store/restaurant around will shut off their lights and close their doors. Seriously. The only exception to this is if you are in an airport, or a tourist heavy part of town. During this time, all the workers go home (if its close enough) or go for lunch. They relax, chat, enjoy, and then once 4 or 5 rolls around (depending on their form of employment) its back to work.
Many places have hours posted like 9am-2pm, 5pm-8pm, as this mid-day break is just a part of their way of life. It is more widespread in some cities than in others, but across all of Spain it seems to still be in practice.
Also, on the weekends, you better plan when you want to get things done. While in the US everything is open late on Saturday, here, some things never re-open after the 2pm break until Monday Morning. Imagine walking down Michigan or 5th Avenue with all of the stores closed. This was Barcelona on Saturday afternoon, and all day Sunday.
That's probably the 1 part of Spanish living I could never get used to.
Look for more individual entries about the cultural differences between the US and Spain!
Update!
A lot has happened since last Weds, and there are some entries in the works that I'm going to finish up today as well.
Get ready for info on:
-Spain/Travel
-Sevilla highlights
-Barcelona highlights
Just wanted to prep you for the mass number of entries to be added today.
~Jenna
Get ready for info on:
-Spain/Travel
-Sevilla highlights
-Barcelona highlights
Just wanted to prep you for the mass number of entries to be added today.
~Jenna
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Clase Hoy
So, class was a bit of a challenge today.
We started off with a review of fruits, vegetables, and meals - then followed up with a 3 question quiz: I wrote down the names of fruits and vegetables, and they had to draw the picture. Both of them did it right, but not without some arguing first.
Next, we moved on to discuss hobbies and sports. The pictures of the hobbies were fine, but when we were talking about TV shows, Alvaro got very upset. He claimed that he "didn't understand what we were doing" even though it was very straight forward and Mer was doing it correctly. He started to cry and we took a 10 minute break to figure out why he was so worked up.
Once he settled down, we discussed Question words: who, what, where, when, why, how, and that went swell. So did discussion on possessives. It was the reading about sports where Mer lost it and started to cry. For no reason really, she was upset that she had to read more than her brother, when they both had exactly 3 sentences to read.
We ended class a bit early as they were both a bit worked up and upset.
This week has been quite interesting. Monday they were tired. Tuesday, they were too hyper, and today they were all emotional. Guess that's the emotional roller coaster of being a 7 or 10 year old.
Hopefully a game of sports charades goes over well tomorrow.
We started off with a review of fruits, vegetables, and meals - then followed up with a 3 question quiz: I wrote down the names of fruits and vegetables, and they had to draw the picture. Both of them did it right, but not without some arguing first.
Next, we moved on to discuss hobbies and sports. The pictures of the hobbies were fine, but when we were talking about TV shows, Alvaro got very upset. He claimed that he "didn't understand what we were doing" even though it was very straight forward and Mer was doing it correctly. He started to cry and we took a 10 minute break to figure out why he was so worked up.
Once he settled down, we discussed Question words: who, what, where, when, why, how, and that went swell. So did discussion on possessives. It was the reading about sports where Mer lost it and started to cry. For no reason really, she was upset that she had to read more than her brother, when they both had exactly 3 sentences to read.
We ended class a bit early as they were both a bit worked up and upset.
This week has been quite interesting. Monday they were tired. Tuesday, they were too hyper, and today they were all emotional. Guess that's the emotional roller coaster of being a 7 or 10 year old.
Hopefully a game of sports charades goes over well tomorrow.
Monday, July 19, 2010
Cerveceria Internacional
Getting there was a bit fun too, as we were winding through many small streets of Seville, and straying far from the regular 'tourist track'. Both of us like to do our own thing when it comes to travel, so I was glad that we were in search of something that won't show up on a "Top 5 to do!" list on a travel site.
We mapped the route, got there, and one street was suddenly an intersection of 5 roads. We knew it had to be near by, so Jeff asked someone, "Perdon, donde esta la cerveceria internacional?" The guy looked at us and said, "a la izquierda". We looked to our left, and there it was. He must have thought we were crazy stupid or something.
This place was unbelievable. The far wall showcased bottles from all over the world, and they had over 12 different beers on tap, specialty glasses, and recommendations for just about everything.
I knew we had found a treasure.
This photo became our viewpoint for the next 3+ hours, as we engaged in conversation, beverage consumption, and tapas tasting. For having just met a few hours before, you would have thought we'd known one another for years.
I love when that happens.
My first was "Gulden Draak" which was not only fun to say, but also a great beverage to experience. It had the body of a beer, but the sweetness of a liquor, and all the fun of a great name and a fancy glass. It took us a while just to get acquainted with the color and the smell.
The next was similar to the first but a bit darker in color. Very rich tasting.
What more could you ask out of an evening on the town? Everything was excellent. Even better, after several rounds of drinks and trying all the best tapas on the list, our bill was less than 25 euro. You can't beat that with a stick. Why would you want to.
Here's the website of the place: http://www.cerveceriainternacional.com/ check it out if you're interested.
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