When it comes to things like "music", I've always been the odd one out in my family. My dad's into jazz and gospel, my sister pop and anything top 40, while I've always preferred alternative and rock, and anything I can dance to (club, hip hop, or world/tribal).
On Saturday, my dad and I were setting up iTunes for my mom so she'd have music on her iPhone to play when she goes walking. As we were asking her what she'd like to buy, she suggested groups like Aerosmith, and Creed. She found some cd's she had which are all of the rock genre. As we added them, my dad kept asking if she wanted some "soul" or "classics" and she sorta just shrugged. He searched some Caribbean tunes, but there was nothing she wanted to buy.
I now see that, despite how odd she made me feel when I was younger for liking music by "skinny white rockers" I'm no different than she was 30 years ago listening to music.
Its so silly how people go out of their way to make situations more odd than necessary. Its also interesting the perceived "need" from those on the outside to try and reign people back to what they "should" listen to, or what "other people like them" are listening to. In the past its been my mom doing that to me. That night, it was my dad doing that to my mom.
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